a love story~

 

A long long time ago a geeky girl met a great guy. {They were made for each other.}

A whirlwind courtship ensued for four years. {This taught them the value of spontaneity.}

They broke up in order to grow up, for three whole years. Each relegated to their own living quarters, she in her large one bedroom terra cotta apartment with its sparkling purple kitchen countertops and  three cats to keep her company. Their names-Cassiopeia, Felix and Jones.  Not really a girl to date much, she often times just hung out with her married friends, thank goodness each of those couples had a spare room with her name on it for those occasions when she just couldn't stand to stay alone in her wonderfully charming yet awfully lonely apartment.  {This taught her the value of true friendship.} 

They hooked up again thirteen years ago this coming March.  {This taught her the value of patience, and non-compromise.}

They then became home owners together. {This taught them the value of financial strain.}

They then adopted a delightful Jack Russell Terrier.  Then *surprise!* they had a darling blonde haired, green eyed baby girl.  A tough act to follow was that little miss, but along came (finally! after four years trying) a sister for her, a new baby girl with brown hair and brown eyes.  Double trouble.  {These three taught them the value of putting others first in life.}

And so came the time one day {when the young man who had built his career, built a solid foundation for a family, became a father to two delightful human daughters and one sweet canine daughter,} that he would propose to his long time love, who he had put up with lovingly so for nineteen years. 

{Though she often lost her temper, ate a lot of cheese, got way too deep into conversation sometimes that he thought he needed a psych degree just to relate to what she had to offer, she slept late and stayed up even later, she had the yearning to globe-trot, see lots of concerts, often freakishly change her hair so dramatically that he could only just get used to one look before she did a switcheroo on him...he still asked.  Bless his sweet soul.}

She said YES. 

Which brings us to this day.  When just over two years of being engaged has even the children asking, "When are we getting married?"

So she found a venue.

She found a dress. (Shhhh!~don't tell him.)

Now, if she can find two matching wedding bands she'll be all set.

:)

At one time she wanted to marry in tents beneath starry skies, in a red saree, and with everyone in attendance.  Beaches with sand would have been nice, or old expansive properties chock full of cows and chickens (seriously!). 

But she has settled on what her spirit wants the most, an outdoor wedding amidst the firs and pines, with a campfire.  Beer.  The Tragically Hip, The Weepies and Deadmau5 playing on in the background {cause she loves to boogie on down}. Loved ones.  Simplicity.  {He agrees, whole heartedly.}

So in the summer of 2011, they shall finally tie the knot.  *Tink!* here is to them not dragging their heels any longer.  {This taught them the value of waiting for things.}

xoxo

Comments

[Bhavna]

Oh my God...what beautiful story Gillian! Totally made my morning :)

Love the wedding dress...it is so you! And the wedding in a saree..well, anytime you visit India, I would love to host you for the 'second' Indian wedding :)

love and hugs xo

[Gillian daSilva]

Oh BB, thank you so much. I have a short list of those I'm calling when I get to India, and of course you are on it. Love! xo

[Account Deleted]

Well, dang! It's about time! CONGRATULATIONS! :D
This has to last.

[Gigi]

I couldn't love this post or this story more! What a venue, what a dress, and what a couple! I'm over the moon for you both! xoxo Gigi

[kate]

Beautifully said and done. Congrats...

[Graciel @ Evenstar Art]

you deserve the sun, the moon and the stars.

and the best love this world has to offer.

hooray!!!

much love,
graciel

[Jennifer]

Love your story Gill! You will have an awesome day! Your venue is spectular (been up there many times!). Conrats to you both!!

[Jennifer]

Spectacular not spectular! LOL!

[Lisa]

I met you just after the above said break (did some of that growing up with you) and I can attest to how much you love that man and he you....Congratulations to you both. It's been a long time coming and it couldn't be more real. Love the dress, love the location and love you!! xoxo

[gemma]

Congratulations!There is much to love around here. Love him! Love her! Love the girls! The entire family is precious!!!Very happy for you! May you continue to learn and grow and love always and always.

[Marilyn Miller]

I read this post hours ago and have been thinking happy thoughts for you all day. How exciting! I love the venue and the dress. Enjoy every moment of the preparations and celebration.

[Lisa Swifka]

Darling Gillian.......I am thrilled to absolute bits for both of you!!! It's all so perfect...that beautiful setting, that fabulous dress, the love story of your little family!!! It is going to be THE event and hopefully.....just maybe....a few bloggity friends could possibly attend???? :)
Sending love!
XOXOXOXOXO

[Heart]

So dreamy - so romantic, my first time around here, thanks for your lovely treat with words.. "{These three taught them the value of putting others first in life.}" True, so true..
Good luck!!!

[Donna]

Love you both, such wonderful, caring people who are perfect together.

[Steve]

Ok, I'm a little behind on my blog reading.

Gillian, words cannot describe how happy I am for you. This is awesome and the girls can stop pestering you too! Bonus!!!

BTW, the dress is beyond fantasic. So perfect. So you.

Steve

[Gillian daSilva]

Donna, Julian and I both adored you oodles-full during our time in Jordan. We adored your company, your wit, your humour, and your honesty. We count you among our cherished friends.
It would be our honour to have you at our wedding-as an expat Canuck I think it is your duty to attend!!! lol
We love you xo

[Gillian daSilva]

Lisa,
You do realize that your wedding was ten years ago?
I cried tears of joy to see my two best friends get married. Now you MUST come to ours.
I miss you more than words can say my drageee friend!!!
P.S. did your eyebrows ever grow back???
xoxoxo

[Gillian daSilva]

Jen!
Thank you so much!
xoxo
p.s. out of everyone here I think you have known me the longest!!!! 1980 :D

[Lulu]

Oh Chica, this is the sweetest story I've read on the net. How inspirational, uplifting and romantic! All the best to you and your man. You both look adorable. Love your smiles! :)

Besitos and big hugs...xoxo

[Nisrine]

So sweet! Congrats on the engagement. I love the wedding bands. Any chance I could get invited? :)

[Gillian daSilva]

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Yes!!! xoxo
 

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[Soapstone Countertops]

Congratulations.