That you be happy.
That you be fed.
That you be loved.
That you be carefree!
That you be reckless & wild (for it is so much fun to forgo responsibility every now and then, we all have an inner child to nurture.)
That you be surrounded by warmth.
That you listen to loud music of your choosing.
That if you need a hug, someone gives you one unconditionally. (Twelve a day, is essential for life. My friend Cate is a huge hugging advocate, and says that the first four fuel you for survival, the remaining eight balance you and maintain you...so twelve is of utmost importance!)
That if you are alone and sad that you only look up to a shining star and know that I am thinking of you. Yes, I am thinking of YOU. What could be nicer? (Will you return the favour?)
That you be at peace with your decisions today.
That you put yourself first, and then subsequently put others first in order of importance. Life triage. Decipher who needs you most and GO! Giving of yourself makes you feel great.
That you accept someone new and annoying into your life because they are likely there to teach you something.
That you let it roll. (Water off a duck's back.)
That you forgive. (Who cares? A year from now, will this truly matter? If no, then let it go....)
That you challenge yourself to something new...a language, a new road trip, a new "look" (some of us are still wearing the same old clothes we always did, distinguish yourself and redefine yourself, and DON'T care what others say about it....)
That you join a society...or a guild....or a brotherhood. We all need to belong somewhere.
That you try preparing a new food. Seriously, no one wants your "famous" meatloaf anymore!
That you do your body & mind a favour tomorrow morning and s t r e t c h before you do anything else.
That you buy a coffee press, and indulge in one of the finer tastes on the planet. French press coffee.
That if you aren't a coffee person, go out and treat yourself to a soy chai latte at Starbuck's. (Not an endorsement, just a personal fave. Go for extra foam and cinnamon.)
That if you haven't been in awhile, go dancing!! Shake your bootie! Or is that, booty? Either way, just go shake it cause that is why you were given it. For real. I wouldn't steer you wrong.
That if you have to let someone down, do it gently. For what goes around comes around we all know that. (No, I am NOT driving the bitter bus! lol)
That you trust. That is all. That is a tough one, for those of you who have been let down. Get over it.
That you send me a postcard. My address is 215 King Street East, Oshawa, Ontario L1H 1C5. That you say something nice to me on that card to make my day. I will then share the results here on this little blog for all the world to see. You will be part of a really good "feel good" project and then we'll pass the torch and YOU may be next to get postcards. Yes, this is fun. Do it. Oh and if you do and you are on Facebook then I shall add you. Oh yes, how much fun is this? We are starting a real party here...!
That you wish a darling girl a Happy Birthday! today...yes, today. She rocks. Though she be speechless. Hard to believe actually....lol....xo
That you....have a wonderful weekend.
My gratitude list:
1. Harissa sauce.
2. New York City!
3. Will Farrell.
No links today. You don't need the extra work. Know that you are treasured beyond measure when you gaze up at our star system and know KNOW that you aren't alone here in the cosmos. For don't we all want to just be part of something bigger, and better than ourselves? Oh yes. We do.
Much love, happy happy! xoxo
YOU are treasured and loved! Deeply!
M
Posted by: Maithri | December 12, 2009 at 02:36 AM
You're the best birthday horoscope/blogpost a guy could wish for! Infinite blessings back to you...and some sleep, too! ;)
Posted by: Greg | December 12, 2009 at 03:08 AM
So many reasons I adore you... xoxox
Posted by: Tara Bradford | December 12, 2009 at 05:40 AM
This is one of the BEST lists I have read in a long time Gillian. You are a breath of fresh air when the world around me seems "clogged" and you help me to sift through and see what matters. I'm linking to you today because this needs to be read by many.
Wishing you everything on your list and then some!! xoxox
Posted by: Sherry | December 12, 2009 at 06:51 AM
Postcard on its way from GraceGal. It's in an envelope cause it's sort of a postcard- all I had:) Great Post.
Posted by: GraceGal | December 12, 2009 at 08:46 AM
gillian, a big thank you. what a beautiful sentiment.
Posted by: margie | December 12, 2009 at 09:14 AM
My soul sister/friend Sherry sent me here, and I am so grateful to her for that ! This list is magnificent ! It makes me want to paint it big on my wall and read it each day when I awake and treat myself to a day fulfilling that list every single day !
Thank you for the soul inspiration !
Writing down your address as speak...
Big Love to you, Gillian !
Posted by: Kim Mailhot | December 12, 2009 at 10:55 AM
Gillian, what a wonderful list. I will send a link to my sister, who lives in Greater Toronto, and sorely needs the encouragement contained here. Thanks so much!
Posted by: Renate | December 12, 2009 at 11:41 AM
Hi Blue,
Lovely list my dear. My postcard will come a little later when I am feeling a little better. I hate being ill at Christmas but it is what it is. Thanks for the happy thoughts today.
Kate
Posted by: Kate Robertson | December 12, 2009 at 12:45 PM
Sherry Lee sent me here today. So glad I took her advice (she's always so good at pointing me in the right direction). Your list is sweet, indeed!
Posted by: Deidra | December 12, 2009 at 01:44 PM
And I love you....
As always sending it to you in gentle vibrant chi. Swirling around and hugging you all.
And upon a postcard as well this year.
muah
Posted by: gemma | December 12, 2009 at 02:50 PM
You are one magical sweet girl! I adore youxx
Posted by: linni | December 12, 2009 at 04:17 PM
beautiful list
Posted by: charlane | December 12, 2009 at 05:02 PM
Thank you for all the fine wishes and for the photograph of the snowman too Gillian!
I wish everything for you, that you wish for yourself!
Love,
Constance
Posted by: Rochambeau | December 12, 2009 at 05:11 PM
You completely rock, you really do, sweet girl! Can I boomerang all those wishes right back to you? Hope you are happy, warm, and hugged tonight! xo Gigi
Posted by: Gigi | December 12, 2009 at 05:40 PM
Happy Birthday Girl!
What an amazing list. Thanks for thinking of me when you look at the stars, I will return it back to you.
A card will be on it's way to you soon.
Posted by: Marilyn | December 12, 2009 at 06:08 PM
I found you via Sherry, and I'll certainly be back! I love, love, love your list. I need to copy it and print it out...such wonderful wishes!
Posted by: Paula Bogdan | December 12, 2009 at 07:32 PM
Hello lovely! What a beautiful list, filled with love.
I send you blessings
with cherries on top
This is truly filled with kindness.
You warm me.
xo
Posted by: christina | December 13, 2009 at 12:33 AM
great list. enjoyed that a lot.
Posted by: kamana | December 13, 2009 at 04:46 AM
I love your snowman. he's sweet and gentle looking, much like the elephant man (who I adore).
Posted by: lisa | December 13, 2009 at 05:14 AM
Your snowman looks like my aunt Harriet - she smoked a corn cob pipe too. Hey, isn't that a touque? Aunt Harriet all over!
Thanks for the heads up on my meat loaf. I'd better bring back my scampi. Next time you're here we'll jitterbug. To dance is to live.
Wishing you twelve hugs today, mon Bleux... three for you, and three apiece for yours.
Posted by: Jeaux | December 13, 2009 at 08:59 AM
What a lovely list to wish anyone! Thanks you!
Have sent off a card neighbour! (I am in Cambridge!)
Posted by: Bev Baird | December 13, 2009 at 10:33 PM
You are a joy! and I am putting a postcard in the mail to you tomorrow...
x...x
Posted by: Stephanie | December 13, 2009 at 11:52 PM
lovely list...and soon you shall get a postcard from me.
xo
Posted by: Se'lah | December 14, 2009 at 04:57 PM
thank you for the fabulous, wonderful, list of wishes. right back at you, my dear!
Posted by: elizabeth | December 14, 2009 at 11:08 PM
It is all about the sunshine and happiness and you are truly a beacon for both. I am sighing contently after reading this. Thanks.
Posted by: Steve Kubien | December 17, 2009 at 12:01 AM
I love these good wishes. They're so full of meaning!
xo,
Nisrine
Posted by: Dinners & Dreams | January 18, 2010 at 06:18 PM